Behind on your mortgage? You don't have to decide everything today.

Right now it may feel like the letters keep coming and every option looks like a dead end. As you read, you'll start to notice things getting clearer: what you know comes into focus, what you fear gets smaller, and your next step becomes easier to see.

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Where you are now. Behind on payments, and notice: more than one road is still open. Tap a path and picture where it leads.

From "behind on payments", roads branch to keeping the home, selling, a short sale, or a deed-in-lieu You are here Keep the home Sell Short sale Deed-in-lieu

The hardest part is often the decision, not the paperwork.

Maybe there's an envelope you've set aside unopened. Maybe you've lain awake running numbers that won't add up. That's a normal response to a heavy situation, and it says nothing about who you are.

It isn't. Keeping a home is not automatically success. Selling it is not automatically failure. The useful question is what the facts mean in your situation, and what the next step is.

As you begin separating what you know from what you fear, you may find yourself breathing a little easier. Behind on Your Mortgage shows you how, one small step at a time.

What I know

  • I'm two payments behind
  • My servicer sent a letter on the 3rd
  • I haven't asked what my home is worth

What I'm afraid might happen

  • "I'll lose everything"
  • "It's already too late"
  • "I'll never recover"

The Next-Step Method, from Chapter 2

  1. Name the feeling.
  2. Separate what you know from what you fear.
  3. Turn the fear into a question.
  4. Make the action smaller.
  5. Choose an action that creates information.
  6. Take the next step before you know the final answer.
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Book 1 · Start here · for homeowners

Behind on Your Mortgage

By Dana Parker · 84-page PDF

Imagine sitting down with your mortgage statement and understanding every number on it. Imagine knowing exactly what to ask when you call your servicer. That's the calm this guide is written to give you.

It won't push you to keep your home at all costs or to sell it. The choice stays yours. As you move through each chapter, it walks you through how far behind you really are, how the foreclosure timeline works, whether your hardship is temporary, what your home is worth against what you owe, and what each option actually involves. Four fictional homeowners, Elena, Marcus, James and Rebecca, and Denise, show why similar problems can lead to different choices.

  • Part II'm behind. What happens now?
  • Part IIUnderstand the situation before choosing the solution
  • Part IIIIf you want to keep the home: repayment, forbearance, modification
  • Part IVWhen keeping it may not be sustainable: sale, short sale, deed-in-lieu
  • Part VComparing your paths, plus credit and tax realities
  • Part VIProtecting yourself from scams and bad paperwork
  • Part VIIMaking a decision without making it from fear
  • Toolkit20 worksheets and checklists, including the 7-Day Next-Step Guide and a Decision Readiness Check, plus a plain-English glossary

Short enough to read in an evening or two. Download it in minutes, and you can start Chapter 1 tonight.

Picture walking into your short sale already knowing how it works.

You'll know who makes the decisions, what they look at, and what can actually change. A short sale isn't one argument over price. It's a series of decisions about eligibility, value, net proceeds, liens, and approval terms, and the more you understand them, the steadier you'll feel.

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Book 2 · For homeowners · 415 pages

The Homeowner's Guide to Short Sale Negotiations

28 chapters and a 30-tool Homeowner Toolkit. Open it to the question that's keeping you up at night, and turn straight to the chapter that answers it.

  • Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, FHA, VA, USDA and private loan rules compared
  • Responding to valuations, counteroffers and contribution requests
  • Second mortgages, HELOCs and relocation assistance
  • Reading approval letters and deficiency language before you sign
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Book 3 · For agents and brokers · 206 pages

The Real Estate Professional's Guide to Short Sales

48 chapters and a 37-tool Agent Toolkit. Imagine every short sale file you take on feeling organized and under control, for you and for the client who's counting on you.

  • Deciding whether to take a short-sale listing
  • The first conversation with a client in financial distress
  • Building the file, pricing, and negotiating the money
  • Bankruptcy, divorce, probate, and escalations that get action
  • Approval-letter pitfalls and a professional file audit

Whatever you're stuck on, there's a chapter waiting for it.

"I don't understand why the offer is being rejected."

Chapters 4 and 12–14 explain how the servicer reads your offer, the net sheet, and allowable expenses.

"They say the property is worth more than I think it is."

Chapters 10–11 cover valuations and how to respond with evidence instead of frustration.

"They're asking me to contribute money."

Chapter 15 explains contribution requests and what questions to ask before agreeing.

"There's foreclosure activity or a sale date."

Chapter 21 covers what a short sale review does and doesn't do to foreclosure timelines.

"I received an approval letter."

Chapter 23 walks through approval terms line by line, and Chapter 24 covers deficiency language.

Save with a bundle

For homeowners

The Homeowner's Bundle

Behind on Your Mortgage plus The Homeowner's Guide to Short Sale Negotiations. Start by finding the road that fits your life, and if a short sale turns out to be it, you'll already have everything you need to walk it with confidence.

For homeowners and agents

The Complete Library

With all three guides, you'll see the whole road at once: how to choose your path, and how a short sale works from both sides of the table. It's ideal when a homeowner and agent are working together, or when an agent wants the right reading ready for every client.

Pay securely with Apple Pay, card, or PayPal. Your download link arrives by email right after checkout. Because these are instant digital downloads, all sales are final. See our refund policy. Questions? Email beyondbehindmtgs@gmail.com.

Our mission

We're passionate about helping people through their mortgage crisis.

Everyone goes through hard seasons. A lost job, a medical bill, a divorce, a loss in the family, a payment that quietly grew out of reach. Falling behind doesn't mean you failed. It means life happened, the way it happens to all of us at some point.

We created Beyond Behind because no one should have to face this confused, ashamed, or alone. Our hope is simple: that these books find the people who need them most, right when they need them, and help them take one clear, steady step forward.

Wherever you are today, you are not your mortgage status, and this is not the end of your story. There is life beyond behind, and you don't have to find your way there without a map.

With hope,
The Beyond Behind team

Questions

Which guide should I read first?

If you're behind and still deciding, begin with Behind on Your Mortgage. Once you've read the first few chapters, you'll have a much clearer sense of which road fits. If you've already decided on a short sale, go straight to the homeowner's negotiation guide. Agents should start with the professional's guide.

I'm a real estate agent. Is the homeowner's guide useful for me too?

Many agents find it helpful to have both. The Homeowner's Guide to Short Sale Negotiations is written in plain English for the seller, so it can be a thoughtful resource to give your clients, helping them understand what's happening, stay calmer, and respond faster when documents are needed. Keeping a copy yourself also gives you a handy reference for explaining each stage in words your clients already understand. The Complete Library includes both the agent and homeowner guides.

How do I receive my ebook?

Each guide is a PDF you can read on your phone, tablet, or computer, or print at home. Right after checkout, your download link arrives by email. Save it somewhere handy so you can come back to it whenever a new question comes up.

Will this tell me what to do?

No, and that's on purpose. You know your life best. The guides lay out your options and the questions to ask, so the decision you make is one you understand and feel settled about. They also point out when it makes sense to get a housing counselor, attorney, or tax professional involved.

Can I get a refund?

Because your ebook is delivered instantly and can't be returned once downloaded, all sales are final. If your download link doesn't work, the file is damaged, or you were charged twice by mistake, we'll make it right. Just email us at beyondbehindmtgs@gmail.com within 14 days. Read the full refund policy.

Is the information current?

The federal, agency, and investor materials behind these editions were reviewed through September 2026. Rules change and state law varies, so always confirm current requirements for your situation.

Can a book stop my foreclosure?

No book can promise that, and you should be wary of anyone who does. These guides help you understand the process and act sooner. If you have a sale date or court papers, contact a HUD-approved housing counselor or an attorney now.

How do I contact you?

Email us anytime at beyondbehindmtgs@gmail.com. If your question is about a purchase, include your order number. We aim to respond within 2 business days.

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